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What the votes say about red flags, and how to use the tools
The site’s games produce numbers you won’t find anywhere else: thousands of duels decided by players whose gender and age bracket we know. These articles read those numbers, say what they show and what they don’t, and point to research when it exists. Others explain the self-assessment tools.
- Sleeping with your boss, hitting on coworkers: men and women don’t see the same red flagTwo office behaviors, two mirror-image verdicts. Men rank “sleeping with your boss” as the 2nd worst red flag; women put it 33rd. For “hitting on coworkers,” it’s the other way around: 10th for women, 39th for men. What that gap says — and what it doesn’t.September 29, 2026
- Red flags: men and women (almost) agreeWe expected a battle of the sexes. On everyday behaviors, the votes say the opposite: men and women pick the same worst red flags, and the same harmless behaviors. The few disagreements that remain fit in a handful — and they’re not where you’d expect.September 29, 2026
- Violence meter, consent meter, harassment meter: what these tests are for, and how to read themThey look like magazine quizzes, but most of them come from French public institutions and specialized nonprofits. What they measure, where they come from, how to read a result — and why they have nothing to do with a red flag ranking.September 29, 2026