Where this tool comes from
The Consentomètre (consent meter) was published by the equality and diversity office of the University of Poitiers, in France, under a Creative Commons license. It was designed for students, where power imbalances are often less visible than in a couple: close quarters, alcohol, informal hierarchies, group pressure.
A broader scope than the couple
This is the main difference from the Violentomètre. The situations cover romantic relationships, but also friendships, university and work — because consent is not limited to sexuality: it covers what you agree to do, say, share and put up with.
The test looks at three things: were you able to say no, did you say it freely, and what happened next. A “yes” obtained through insistence, out of fear of the consequences or because giving in was easier is not consent.
What the result does not say
It does not point to anyone. You may recognize, in some situations, your own behavior rather than someone else’s — that is a legitimate use of the tool, and probably the most useful one.
Each situation is introduced by “Does this situation apply to you?” The test presents them one by one; here they are in the order they appear.
What is the Consentomètre (consent meter)?
The Consentomètre helps you assess whether your consent is respected — in romantic relationships, but also in friendships, at university or at work.
Is the test anonymous?
Yes. The 29 questions are processed directly on your device. No data is collected or transmitted.
Who is this test for?
Anyone wondering about a situation where they could not freely say no, or about the behavior of someone close to them. It requires no prior knowledge of the subject.
